Been there, took me 8 years to save up for my car AFTER making sure family was set! Hang in there and keep at it! You'll get there and when you do you will be, justifiably, very proud of yourself!!! 🏎My lack of retirement is the cause for the project creep not to mention the kids. I am doing it YoYo style tear it appart in the fall get it running every year for summer.